PAST MADE PERFECT??

Would you like to revisit your past?

If yes, why?
To correct your mistakes? To relive your good moments?
If you would have never made those mistakes, you wouldn't be at the place you're now, you wouldn't have realized your mistakes and maybe made them somewhere else in future.
Mistakes and failures indicate that you're a human and that you're growing and learning.
It's okay, All of us learn from our mistakes.
It may seem like due to your mistake, something really bad has happened but trust me, it won't seem so big after you grow up, you may even laugh and joke about it.

Now what's the problem with reliving our good moments of the past?
Well, let me tell you a little incident from my life.

I lived in Mumbai from grade 3 till grade 7th that is 5 years from the time where you value your friends! 

So when in 8th grade I shifted to Delhi, I always used to say and wish that only if I could go back to Mumbai all of my problems would be solved and I would be happy. Out of the 3 years that I spent in Delhi, 2 years I wished if only I could go back. And then when I was finally settled and starting to appreciate my time there.

BOOM! My dad got transferred to Mumbai back again.
So I shifted back to Mumbai, almost all of my school friends that I had before were there, yeah I was in a different school, but nothing was the same, nor my bond with the friends I had, neither was I, I had changed a lot, maybe matured or I don't know.(everyone changes as they grow, its a natural process)
I regretted the time I had spent in Delhi just wanting to be back.

No, I'm not telling you how a cruel joke my life is, instead that even if you revisit your past wanting everything the way it was, it isn't possible, you are changed, your surroundings, your circumstances everything has changed.
So it's better to let those good moments stay the way they are in your mind.
Because if you try to relive them as they were, its never gonna be the same,trust me I have experienced it firsthand.
So do I keep chanting that I want to go back to Delhi now? No I don't, because I now know, that even if I could go back, it wouldn't be the same, we as people change, we meet new people, we have new perspectives.
As for the things you have regretted in the past,just let them be. No one has a perfect past.

SOME THINGS YOU CAN'T GO BACK TO, BECAUSE YOU LET THEM SLIP AWAY.





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